So my daughter turned 3 in August and can I tell you I can’t believe how time flies. It feels like it was just yesterday that I was holding her in my arms. Now though I struggle with so many tough decisions. Since she just turned 3 in August we decided to not send her to preschool yet. She is ready but we decided that she would stay home with me at least until January as we were starting her in dance and a couple of other things. We didn’t want to overwhelm her all at once. I do wonder though if we made the right decision. I don’t want her to fall behind developmentally. I have decided that the internet in many ways is evil as you start looking at everything you read makes you wonder if you have already caused your child to be behind.
We have the firm belief that a child should enjoy their childhood and not be forced into learning at too early of an age. That being said you read things online and everything I see is a child should be able to recognize every letter of the alphabet and numbers up to 20 by the time they turn 3. First I must say my daughter was in daycare until last March and they exposed her to the alphabet but didn’t work on having to know it or teaching her cutting or any of those things. We also exposed her to these at home but I can honestly say she doesn’t recognize all of her letters. She knows the alphabet song, she recognizes a lot of the the letters and some of the numbers up to 10. She can count to 20 and she knows how to spell her name (aloud), but doesn’t know how to write her name. She knows her shapes and colors. Is she behind, should she be in preschool to catch up? I don’t know.
I do know that my daughter is a very loving, caring, smart little girl. She loves to share, loves to read, loves to play games. I do know that she has the most vivid imagination and creativity. I do know that she loves being able to hang out with mommy, or yama. She is learning more and more every day and she makes me learn something new every day or reminds me how to appreciate things a little more. I do know that the internet is great in many respects such as getting good ideas of fun ways to teach the alphabet or numbers or creative crafts. In the long run though you have to realize that they will learn at their own pace and that if a project doesn’t go as planned maybe that means today is a day to build a fort or play outside, you are still teaching them with everything you do. So when I start beating myself up over something another kid is doing or something I read online, I just step back and remind myself that everyone matures differently and its about exposing your child to something as you never know when it might just stick:).